The discussion uses survivors' first-person narratives and clinical experience to present a framework within which male incest survivors can explore and share their experiences, investigate the nature of incest recovery, share experiences of what has been helpful to other men in their recovery, and provide specific resources to male survivors. The issues of trust, isolation, shame, and intimacy receive special attention as central issues for all incest survivors. An analysis of the effects of child sexual abuses focuses on the loss of childhood, the use of masks and images, denial, distancing, numbing, perfectionism, loss of self-esteem, and other issues. The exploration of methods for recovery covers the establishment of a reality base, breaking secrecy, developing relationships and social support, addressing sexual feelings, the use of individual counseling, the role of support groups and group counseling, confrontation of the abuse, and forgiving and forgetting. Guidelines for family members and friends and lists of resource organizations and materials.