Although same-sex domestic violence is as prevalent and serious as heterosexual domestic violence, cultural and institutional homophobia has isolated its victims from the psychological, social, and legal support they need to safely leave the abusive relationships. State agency personnel-- including law enforcement officials, shelter workers--and the general community, must be better educated about the seriousness of gay and lesbian domestic violence and of the need to commit more resources to address the problem. Following an examination of the dynamics of lesbian and gay partner abuse, within the context of an overview of domestic violence, this article explores the resources available in Massachusetts to assist battered lesbians and gay men. Proposals are then offered for improving assistance for this largely ignored population. The author suggests that a strategy similar to that adopted for improving services for heterosexual violence be used in addressing homosexual relational violence. The strategy consists of education and training, creative legal advocacy, increased support services, and increased public support. 198 footnotes