The book contains 16 women's accounts of their experiences as victims and their struggles as survivors of date rape, one young man's account of committing a date rape, and chapters by experts on the subject. Topics addressed include: (1) reconciling religion and rape; (2) rebuilding self-image in the aftermath of rape; (3) when yes is not consent; (4) rape sanctioned by the bonds of brotherhood; (5) when rapists brag; (6) revising rape law; (7) surviving a frat train; (8) deflecting suicide and suing for rape; (9) understanding the difference between acquaintance and date rape; (10) a feminist analysis of date rape; (11) reflecting on a 23-year-old rape; (12) Is it rape if he's my boyfriend?; (13) what to expect in a rape exam; (14) a victim, her mother and her friend talk about a date rape; and (15) how to help a victim of rape. Notes, bibliography, appendix