Domestic violence occurs when one person, in an intimate relationship, believes they have the right to control and criticize the other person’s feelings, behavior, and actions. Their violence, or way of controlling, happens in many forms--physically, sexually, and emotionally. Physical violence includes kicking, punching, shoving, slapping or pushing in any way that hurts the body. Sexual violence includes any unwanted touching, or fondling and forced or pressured sex at any time. Women who are suffering in battering relationships come from every part of life, regardless of education, financial security, race or ethnic group, sexual orientation, physical or mental stability, religion, or marital status. The violence will not end without help from other people or the community. Abuse may result in serious physical injury and even death. After each violent event, many women describe feeling alone, frustrated, disappointed, lonely, afraid, and ashamed. Some suggestions for victims to plan for their safety are packing a bag in advance and leaving it at a friend’s house; hiding an extra set of car and house keys outside the house; keeping a list of emergency telephone numbers; setting aside extra money; and calling a domestic violence hotline and asking them for help. Important papers to take along upon leaving the relationship include birth certificates, deeds or leases, checkbook, car registration, and any court papers or orders. There is a resource list in the back of the booklet for counseling, advocacy, and support group information.