It is essential for police supervisors to establish personal relationships with their subordinates or line officers. An effective supervisor recognizes the value of taking an interest in the personal lives of his/her officers. How does a supervisor establish a personal relationship with his/her subordinates? This article presents suggestions and recommendations to assist in establishing a mutually respectful and friendly relationship without crossing the lines of decorum, such as taking the time to know the first names of those that work for you and taking personal interest in their lives by asking simple questions, without being perceived as intrusive. This information leads to an enhanced understanding of the motivation behind an officer’s behavior. A supervisor who establishes these personal relationships is able to more effectively supervise from a position of understanding. This personal relationship allows the supervisor to lead with compassion and understanding and the officer is more likely to extend him/herself for the supervisor.