Although settlement in some cases reflects flexibility, party participation, and true agreement, in most cases it reflects unequal financial resources, procedural support, or emotional stamina. Parties report settling issues such as child support according to nonlegal, situational factors -particularly their relative impatience to finalize the divorce -- and mutual satisfaction with settlement terms is low. Our findings raise questions about the assumed value of informal settlement. However, we recognized that informal processing of divorce is structurally and institutionally inevitable (with or without evidence of its desirability), and we suggest that reform efforts must ultimately recognize both the inevitability and the limits of informal process. (Publisher abstract) ABI mtg